Coping dating married man
Plus, they say that living well is the best revenge and, you certainly want to get revenge—in a manner that helps you heal instead of causing you more pain.
You’re at a boring office party and as you’re trying to figure out how you can discretely leave, a man, the very definition of tall, dark and handsome, walks in and you’re captivated.
The only thing that changed was the players, not the game.
Even if your marriage ends in divorce and your spouse chooses the other man/other woman you can bet, given time, reality will hit hard.
In general, society looks at the other man or other woman as being the responsible party in an affair.
It’s understandable that they become the target for the rage and anger the deceived spouse feels.
In the end, they discover that all the old burdens and issues that came along with the marriage are the same, the only difference is, the person they feel responsible to is different.
You should not take it personally because it is not about you as a person.
Given time and patience, most affairs go down in flames.
How you handle the fact that there is another man or woman has a great deal to do with whether or not you end up in divorce court or, are able to save your marriage.
I have a few suggestions that will help save your sanity and possibly your marriage.