Redating an ex years later
They are looking for an escape from the demands of life, and the old flame takes on the bright shining light of deliverance. The once bright light that looked like a beacon of hope in the storm was more like a kraken leading you towards the rocky shores of a shipwreck.
At this time, the current spouse is hurt by the infidelity as well as the lies and denial. When they come to my office for therapy, they work on repairing the damages and fixing the elements of the marriage that weren’t working before the affair. When I review the choices that the wrongdoer made along to way, it is clear to me how the situation could have turned out better. As soon as you begin to have feelings for another person, tell your partner, even if this disclosure causes you pain, embarrassment, or discomfort. Dissatisfaction that didn’t have words previously will now have names.Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding any mental health symptom or medical condition.Never disregard professional psychological or medical advice nor delay in seeking professional advice or treatment because of something you have read on Good Most people who cheated on their spouses say, afterwards, that they wish they could take it back. Questions or concerns about the preceding article can be directed to the author or posted as a comment below.Good is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, medical treatment, or therapy.