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You want to get strict about your photo policies, that's fine, but I'm pretty sure only applying it to women is discrimination. Oh and here's some advice - if you want to weed out men that aren't serious or even literate (setting these parameters might leave you with a dozen or so males to choose from on the entire site) - filter your mail so they have to write 300 characters minimum for the message to go through at all.
You might get less mail (these lazy men now treat ALL dating sites like Tinder...swiping and liking with zero effort put into messaging...character requirement or not), but you'll find that quality matters over quantity - although quite a few dullards wasted their word count by complaining about having to do something as outlandish as write an entire paragraph (oh the humanity! I guess anything more than 160 characters hurts some people's heads these days....
If you want to find a true lady, try https://j4l.com/402006 you will see that these girls are hot, smart, feminine. They come from different culture, more family-oriented. I think this is the kind of ladies that most of our men deserve! Apparently plenty of feces updated their tos - only WOMEN' S photos are rejected if we use filters of any kind. I had five photos - and I was very much 'me' and filter free in my main one (your main pic should be clear and unmanipulated, fair enough), but they IMMEDIATELY (within seconds!
) took down two others I posted - one with bunny ears and another for no valid reason whatsoever, telling me they did not meet their new extreme requirements (you must post only clear face and body shots). Oh but what do I see - ah yes, TONS of MEN using filters (some e.g.
I get the paranoia to a degree -there are real scammers out there after all, but to criminalize ~and sully the reputation of~ every halfway decent looking person you see online is not the solution. Huge disparity on plenty of fish between perception and reality Reality is the women on there are either low grade 2s/3s or way past the best too old They however perceive they are amazing and a great catch and therefore have unrealistic expectations and demands.
The relatively 'normal' messages I received were, for the most part, rather forced (e.g. Online dating has created a whole generation of women who offer very little but think they deserve a stunning looking fella.
I can not count how many times I've been stood up at the last hour before we were supposed to meet.....
and those who send the cancellation text are the ones who have a small shred of decency. What they don't realize is that if they do catch someone out of their league, that catch is temporary and unrealistic. Online dating is a waste but pof is the bottom of the barrel and the worst of the worst!!
They are looking for a superman offering 200 lbs of fat and IQ about 60-70 in return.It may not be about you personally (or maybe it is, oh well). If we're too attractive - you (quite literally) dehumanize us. They steal your photos and then use them to make fake profiles.Oh and our standards are too high, because we have *gasp* certain preferences, ok... A lot of picking apart women's looks too, which says A LOT about your character (or lack of). It's almost like we can't win ;) All in all, a horrid experience. You're a fool if you think POF needs to know your birth order, parent's marital status and annual income (not even a prefer not to say' option) etc. Don't waste your time paying for this filth when the majority of other users are free.I swear within 10 minutes of browsing I saw tons women on POF from my last time in 2015 with the exact same photos as then.So not only are they lying about how they look but how can they be on a site totally overloaded with men and not have found anyone???